A belief to judge and be judged..

Have you ever wondered what is love all about?
Or have you actually felt what is love?
Perhaps are you actually in love?

To describe love as something like, say in other words, a mutual understanding of emotions, affections, feelings and sometimes even spiritually between two individuals is not going to give you the love, almost everyone keeps bragging about. Yes, weird it may seem, or sometimes even controvesial, but love is a little bit more than just understanding one another in and out. Confessing the iconic phrase "I LOVE YOU" to someone whom you think is the one made for you alone is not going to guarantee you to get the reply "I LOVE YOU TOO" for as long as you think it is going to last, eternally in another way of putting it.

A friend of mine, came about and described of the things she went through. Having being proposed by several guys is not something to be happy off. I mean, in a way, it lets others perceive you as something so exquisite and irresistible that not one or two but several guys, chase after. Sad, she had to turn over them. Its not the characteristics or the comfort that she sees in them, but in what she believes that is right for her. After all, one has many reasons to reject another one. And of all reasons, the most common one is the difference between these two individuals that set them apart. A difference which is more than just being ridiculous. A reason that I and many others believe, that is should not be a question or a statement between the space of two individuals in love. Sadly again, things remain the way they are. And we, are expected to go along them.

Love is just a word. You write it. You say it. And you confess it. A word being so pure, but always being prejudiced just because on one belief. You may ask, why not just go against it and fight for your love. After all love goes beyond anything on this sphere. Think again. We live in a place where belief becomes of great significance in determining almost everything. We are brought up to disintegrate this belief and we are taught to go along it. And so then, to expect one to go against this common belief will only cause more pain than the pleasure of love itself.

It is pretty much unjust and wrong to measure love with a belief of a common rate. You see, when something is so pure and powerful that it is able to cure almost anything, bringing happiness to almost everyone, and changing things for the good to almost everything, when judged based on some saying passed down since generations ago, then that purity and powers of that word itself has disappeared into thin air. Then, of what use it is to write, say and even confess it? It is just a word, and nothing more.

Love is not for you and me to judge on. But again, it is sad, that people choose to control its undying  auras that gives life to all. Well, almost all. People shall remain people. Their norms shall be their very norms from yesterday up to tomorrow. Their beliefs however is on a lever where one can choose to pick sides. To restrict, control, order, and demand something based on one ridiculous, senseless belief will not make you a person. It will only dehumanize you one day. Perhaps sooner.

I am truly sad for those of you out there whose love is judged based on this belief. Nevertheless, my recommendation would be: if love is all you need, then live and fight for it because one day things will not be the same as they were before.