NO & YES

it is very easy to say a no. you do not have to actually say the word no itself, but..

the things that  you do,
the response that you give,
the attitude you show,
the behaviour you potray...

will actually resemble your no~

sometimes i wonder, is it that difficult to do something out of your will for the good of others. yes you may think that why should you suffer or put yourself in hot soup for another person or another group's sake, but why not?

why not?
is it that painful or difficult?
we are all in the same position, in the same situation, but why is it that it has an exception?
the moment you say you cannot, is the moment where you start to fail. in each of us, theres a potential in us. but that potential will not just bump out automatically. it needs a medium, and its you.
you can do it but you choose not to....
you are capable to perform it but you feel so dependable....
you know the job well but you choose to ignore it..

the question comes to you..

what do you care?
it is my potential and i choose whether to unleash it or not?

but do think of this..

the deeper you lock yourself in that potential supposedly to wait for the perfect time, the harder you shall find it difficult to make it obvious...

sacrificing something for another despite of your own lack of potentials is something that very few are able to do. however those who are able to do it are the ones who has actually unleashed their own potentials.
let it be 1% but the fact is you did what you was told to do. you knew your limits and you went above all. you  knew your incapabilities but you chose to ignore it and put your best forward.that is what i call,

unlocking your potetial....

if one is able to sing and you can only rhyme
if one is able to draw a potrait and you can only draw shapes
if one is able to prepare gourmet dishes and you can only fry eggs
if one is able to write a book and you can only write a paragraph....


never feel small or litlle..because that very small effort you manged to do and show despite knowing that you would not be able to be an artiste, an artist, a chef, and an author is the largest deed and sacrifice you could do without a no~

NO is only for those who believes in their own capabilities and not willing to move an inch further
but
a YES is for those who understands their incapabilities and yet try to do their very best!

i need your smile, laughter & hope

thinking over about the past is something that almost everyone have in common. we think of the what have done. we think of how it caused people to think in the way now. we think of things and of objects. we think of memories and dreams. we think of almost everything.

ironically the past has never thought of us. to it, once pass is passed and thee is no point of re-calling it back. i wonder of people nowadays. they tend to throw the blame or mistake or even failure towards their past. they associate it with ideas or even experiences that has caused the things that they do now which appeared to be not meeting the standards. what has the past got to do with today? yes, i did not say that it could not affect you today, but the context is that why should the past be blamed for one's down?

* silently sits to himself*

people think that they are the most saddest thing, the most unfortunate person, the most unlucky thing that has ever happened to them. they feel that they have been succumbed into a great predicament and the 'credits' were given to the past. people see others as problem-free and happy-go-lucky. they feel that these lucky people are always out of way and never tastes the bitterness in life. they also believe that these people are just so free and are able to do anything they favor. to add more, they sometimes ask themselves or dreamed to be like them.

but the thing that they do not understand god is always fair and just. He knows when to test and when to reward a person. however He is not the topic nor the subject of matter. i believe none in this world does not a have a thought or two about the problems they face. let it be in finances, education, personalities, relationships, responsibilities. anything, but i know and i believe that everyone is this world does not lead a predicament-free life.

but when we ask..

"how come they laugh when i tear?"
"how come they can joke when i can't even laugh?"

"how come they take things as it is when i have too much to handle?"

"how come they are able to take 3 complete meals a day where i barely finish my lunch?"

"how come they know more things when i don't recognize learning or studying or even experiencing them?"

"how come they wake up everyday in the morning with a smile and i all see in the mirror is another typical day?"

"how come they go to bed having sweet wonderful dreams in peaceful sleep where i find it difficult even to sleep?" 

the answer lies within us. it is how we actually perceive these problems. it is how we get rid of this headache and most of all it is how we learn to live and grow with it. surprising it maybe, to actually live and grow with problems but if we take a look at it a little deeper, it is just plain understanding and maturing from the every problem you face. 

why should we tear when these problems are just tests from God. are we afraid to see the reality in life? as a person, we are made and created to have feelings of fear. i do agree, but if we were to be fearful of every challenges in life, then how come we are here today? how come we still survive in this 'living hell'?

why can't we laugh when these problems are haunting us. it has been a universal saying that, laughter is the best medicine. laugh it off, forget it for a day, laugh it loud and you shall see the problems eventually fading away. just laugh from he heart.

why should we feel stress with the too many things to handle? to be able to hold such great responsibilities is something that not everyone can do and yet you have took up the challenge.  so why envy the rest with few work? it is you who will mature more and learn even more.

why must you torture your body with hunger just because you don't feel like eating? you need the energy to think. you need the energy to live. you need the energy for tomorrow as no tomorrows stay the same throughout one's life.

why should you envy those who seems to know everything? you know where you stand and you know how much you have in you and how much more you need to pursue this challenge in life. therefore, stop hesitating, and grasp as much as you need.

why do you see every new day as the same? every new day is a new beginning. it is mark to show that no matter what your problems were, you still could get up the day after and still live. 

why you have sleepless nights when it is the night where the time to take your problems to a new stage. sleep to know that your day will be better tomorrow and not sleep to only see a typical day as any other days.

all in one, it is how we see things the way they are. why think over an over of  your problems where you just need to put a smile, a laughter, a little hope in them? they will help to resolve your problems and they will mature you into a better tougher person in life~